The Wedding: The Blog Enters The Couple Travel Niche
I have taken great effort to keep my personal stories away from this travel blog. The urge of sharing my daily life toiling, opinions, rants was too big to ignore, so, one day I gave birth to another blog under a pen name. The adoption of the pen name reveals something about my character- I am really not comfortable sharing my non travel related life discoveries with the world, yet, I yearn the world to read itβs documented version.
This post however is necessary and inevitable as from now onward all my travels will be couple travel focused- my blog transitions to the couple travel blog niche.
Me and Sayan — The Different City Horror
On the 22nd of January 2017, I tied the knot with my long time boyfriend Sayan Banerjee and shifted my base to Mumbai where he lives since the past two years. The last time we lived together in the same city was way back in 2012.
Surviving all the seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years with him living in a different city was definitely not an easy task. Also it was those years when the smartphone culture wasnβt in vogue in India. Even with all the technology in place, no amount of whatsapp can replace a real hug; no amount of skype can defeat the joy of watching a sunset together.
When Destiny Decided We Should Meet
The World knows India to swear by 33 crore Gods and Goddesses but in the state of West Bengal the urban natives, Bengalis, most of them swear by WBJEE. The West Bengal Joint Entrance Examination (WBJEE) rank determines if the candidate will get a chance to study engineering — a profession revered by the Bengalis.
We were strangers when our path crossed for the first time in an April morning; 19th April 2009 to be precise. In the centre of the revered WBJEE. Back then I had no idea beside me was sitting one of the finest student of India. Teenage hormones had successfully ruined my academic performance so I had no great hopes attached to my own grades.
Is bonding possible right in the middle of an academic examination?
Hell yes! Often people donβt believe me when I say we bonded with each other while giving an all important academic exam. Well but thatβs how it is. You better believe the clichΓ© βwhen you meet the right person everything just falls in placeβ.
In this fiercely competitive examination this stranger actually helped me at the cost of getting his paper cancelled. Since that day he had been helping me from teaching me college mathematics to helping me doing the dishes; from supporting me in the worst of my time to encouraging me to fight back.
I admit of going into depression from the day he left the city. Though I have many friends it is only in his company that I can show my vulnerability. This constant camouflaging of my weakness in front of the World finally had me drained of all strength. The only good that generated out of this several yearlong depression is the travel blog which I am incredibly proud of.
The Wedding
Finally we got our finances sorted, families involved, and shortlisted a suitable date for the ceremony. Since then my mind had been preoccupied with wedding planning so much that often the groom felt ignored!
We had a proper Bengali wedding in the presence of all our family and friends. The amount of attention I was getting for being the bride was monumental.
I am neither religious nor superstitious but I thoroughly enjoyed the rituals. I donβt know their significance but it went on for 4 long days. Yes it was very hectic but absolutely fun.
Imagine spending 4 long days surrounded by people you love who are in the best of their mood, how can someone dislike such an occasion?
With the wedding over, relocation over, I miss those moments on a daily basis. But I love the fact that finally I and Sayan are now living in the same city again, we can hug each other, we can enjoy the sunset together and most importantly we can travel together.
Cheers to our new life!
Practical Information:
Wedding Photographer: Bablu And Anisha Photography (Phone: +91 9830199046)
Bridal Makeup Artist: Munia Ghosh (Phone: +91 9836174706)
Day Makeup Artist: Mithu Bhattacharya (Phone: +91 9088417567)
Saree: Priya Gopal Bishoyi Gariahat, Adi Dhakeswari Bastralaya Gariahat, Adi Mohinimohan Kanjilaal College Street
Gold Jewellery: H.K Dutta & Co. Bowbazaar, Senco Jewellery House B.B Ganguly Street
Costume Jewellery: Shree Hari, Random shops of New Market
This is neither an advertisement nor a recommendation.
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59 Comments
usathroughoureyes
Congratulations to a beautiful couple. Such great photos and words. It is going to be fun traveling along with you and seeing more or your world.
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you so much! Hope our paths cross someday and we meet! π
usathroughoureyes
They will. All great meetings start somewhere.
Tania Mukherjee
Right! And how far can we be away from each other, after all the Earth is round! π
usathroughoureyes
LOL, Great point Tania.
Tania Mukherjee
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thewonderer86
Really lovely photos!
Tania Mukherjee
Thanks a lot! Photos are the only way to capture ‘live memories’ ! π
Lord
Congrats you guys! All the best!
Tania Mukherjee
Thanks! π
Kimberly Erin
Congrats on your wedding and finally being in the same city! Love the colours
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you very much!
Iza (@IzaAbao)
That was such a lovely story. You are perfect for each other. Four days of celebration can be exhausting but I am sure that you had a great time. The yellow sari looks good on you. Your friends look awesome in their saris too.
Iza c/o Kathy James (Walk About Wanderer)
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you so much! π Four days of celebration was daunting but I sailed through it happily. Infact we zoomed on to our honeymoon right on the fifth day!
onlybyland
This is such a romantic story, I wish I could find my true partner like you have. You are right that Skype cannot replace hugs or time together. Congratulations on the wedding!
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you! WBJEE centre,i.e, a competitive exam centre was the last place I was expecting to meet my partner for the first time yet it happened! I am sure you will find your partner too, in someplace you least expect! π
xxxgingerpawsoutdoorsxxx
Congratulations! You look so pretty! And I think it’s so amazing of you to still remember the exact date of the time you first met.
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you girl! The day was remarkable indeed. Haha π
davejaques
Wow, first off congratulations to the both of you! Those are powerful words about having to be long distance, but it’s amazing that it’s finally over. Great photos too, I’ve heard stories about these multiple day weddings. They sound pretty crazy!
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you. I was debating on the fact if I should delve into the ‘long distance’ rant but then I decided I should. Indian weddings are generally multiple days long! Hope you attend some in future! π
Suma Shah
Congratulations to the lovely couple. You look gorgeous in all the pictures :). Having been married just four months ago, I can totally understand the feeling of shifting to a new place and introduction to new family members, it just feels so surreal.
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you and congrats to you too! π
rhiydwi
Aww this was so lovely to read, and congratulations to you both! You look absolutely stunning in the wedding photos, it looks like you all had such a wonderful time. I’ve never been to a Bengali wedding but Indian weddings in general fascinate me – all the colours and the long celebrations, it’s so wonderful!
All the best to you both for the rest of your married life!
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you! Hope you get the opportunity to attend one Indian wedding soon! π
Doreen Pendgracs
Congrats on your recent nuptials, Tania, and thanks for sharing the amazing photos of your wedding. May you have many happy years together.
Scott
We are looking forward to the time we can travel together again without the kids. Not only cheaper, but can go to more places where they would be bored!
Tania Mukherjee
I can understand! Kids get bored so easily! π
exexadmin
Congratulations. That was a beautiful wedding and the photos are amazing.
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you very much! π
themomnoms
Congrats! You have such a beautiful love story and I’m glad that you have a strong basis of friendship above everything else! I wish you the best!
Tania Mukherjee
Thanks! π I strongly believe a relationship is nothing without friendship.
Riely
A lovely story of your romantic journey united as one. I know personally how hard long distant relationships can be with being far apart. But it seems you have made it! Congratulations on the big day! You looked beautiful.
Tania Mukherjee
Thanks for reading. Long distance relationship is hard to survive.
eazynazy
This is really a cute Journey . Loved all your pictures, looks like you had a Blast <3 Happy Married Life
Tania Mukherjee
Thanks! We definitely had a blast! π
apollineadiju
Wow! Congratulations to your wedding. I am so happy for you, and I wish you good luck in your new life.
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you very much! π
JustOneMommysOpinion (@1MommysOpinion)
Aww, what a beautiful love story π May you have many years of happiness ahead of you!
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you very much! π
Marta
What a beautiful wedding you two had! Your story is so romantic, it must have been a true love from the first sight. And OMG! I think I would not survive a 4-day wedding! Mine was only 1 day and that was already hard to plan and manage. I wish I could go one day to India and experience all this!
Tania Mukherjee
Hey Marta! You will surely one day get a chance to attend a long Indian wedding. I wish I had a sibling then I could have invited you over for her/his wedding! Though the 4 day long event is hard on the bride and groom and the direct family members; for all other guests its pure pleasure: 4 days of awesome food and party!
LP
Congratulations on your marriage and thank you for giving us an insight on your culture and how weddings are performed.
You looked so beautiful!
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you so much. Giving insight of how a traditional Bengali wedding is performed was definitely one of my goals while publishing the post. The long Indian weddings are really (although tiring) enjoyable !
The Mad Mommy
What an amazing love story and a beautiful wedding! I love seeing the pictures from your traditional ceremony!
Tania Mukherjee
Thanks! Good to hear the happy pictures of the traditional ceremony delighted you! π
Sandy N Vyjay
The story shared was very beautiful and sweet!.. congratulations!!…I think u ll are a beautiful couple!! The pictures attached were very beautiful and cute!!..Happy traveling as a couple on the voyage called life.
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you fellow Voyager! π
Ami Bhat
Congratulations Tania. Here is to an amazing future for you. Loved all your wedding pics. It is always fun to see a traditional one!
Tania Mukherjee
Thank you! π
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Tiasa Tilak
Oh Bengali weddings are such a delight.
Tania Mukherjee
Yes they are! Thanks π
Tiasa Tilak
My pleasure di. Loved to read your blog.
Tania Mukherjee
Thanks! Take care! π
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winsantdotcom
Belated congratulations and greetings on your wedding. Wishing you a Happy married and blogging life….
Enjoyed reading your story from Exam to Shaadi…..
Tania Banerjee
Haha hope you enjoyed the story. I haven’t met another couple whose bond developed while giving an all important exam! π
Wedding Banquets
Belated congratulations and greetings on your wedding. Wishing you a Happy married and blogging lifeβ¦.
Enjoyed reading your story from Exam to Shaadi
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